Podcast and Chill with MacG

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It's going to be epic. So get your tickets right now before they sell out. 01:21 Calling all chillers. 01:25 Assemble. 01:30 To advertise, email, podcast at thisismaggie.com. Release yourself from order and logic and enter a new place. It's not work. It's not home. Here, no maps have been drawn. No books have been written. Nothing is certain. Everything is possible. Welcome to Podcast and Chill with Maggi. 01:58 I'm assuming this doesn't end well. 02:05 My mother taught me to twerk, my darling. 02:08 Yeah, because she used to do it through jazz. My mom was a rock star. She used to have a tavern. 02:13 Do I like them? Me young. 02:15 My ex was nine years younger than me. 02:18 That bad bitch. 02:20 Going to motherhood. Not only are you a person, but you're also a public figure. So now as a public figure, were there ever like instances where, I don't know, your kid is crying and they're like, oh my gosh, they're saying you're twerking on the internet. I've been to the schools. 02:34 And when I go to that motherfucking school, the teacher will be fired two weeks later the most. 02:41 The principal will be fired. We are so back. 02:44 You guys are getting numbers. 02:47 Is it because of the queer? 02:48 Is it because of the queer? What keeps you away from the older women when you are struggling to mold the younger one? 02:57 Let me tell you why. Because older women are boring. God damn. So you've been through couples therapy as well? Yeah, one relationship. I can tell you girls is crazy. Yeah, same here. 03:07 Fuck you and your knowledge. Fuck you and your penis and its ideas of knowing better. I've got a vagina. My clitoris is bigger than your dick when it's erect. 03:25 I didn't know that either. 03:31 Oh, so I'm not alone. Okay. 03:32 Nah, I didn't know that because that's wild. That has to be fake. 03:36 Fake news. 03:37 Fake news. Who was in the news last year? 03:42 So if you boil the water or tap water, does it remove the air? 03:46 No, no, no. No, no, I can come back. You said, we talked about water and killing the germs from like river or whatever, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. And you talked about it being contaminated when it's cold, of course, because it's cold, not hot. 03:59 It's a tap, yeah. 04:01 Then you said tap. Yeah, yeah. And then I said, I said, oh, if we die, we die. Then I remembered Cyril's plan. And then I was like, oh, shit, no. If we leave, we leave. Because fuck my ARVs. If you don't know what you're going to get it. 04:14 Yeah, yeah. 04:15 In the tab. So if he's not going to, it's almost like he's found a way to not deal with Trump. I said, you know what? The last bet, the country shall be healed. 04:22 I didn't know that. That's crazy, bro. I did not know that. 04:25 But my question still stands. If you boil the water, does it remove the ARVs? 04:28 I don't know about the pills. 04:30 It can't be full strength ARVs though. It can't be full strength in the water though. I refuse. I don't know that. 04:36 I refuse. 04:37 Thank you. Shit. Shit. 04:43 And you know, every time I drink tap water, I feel a bit stronger every time. You know what I mean? It's something, it's something. I feel like a little bit more of a man. I'm like, yeah, I did that. 04:52 Shit. Shit. 05:00 So I saw a video that said that you can get water, you purify the water. 05:05 Yes. 05:06 But it removes all the minerals. The good shit, the minerals. Yeah, so you have to put that shit back. 05:10 Like overcooking broccoli, yeah. 05:11 What work just to drink water, bro? Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's crazy, right? 05:14 At this point, you must just motherfucking live. Because if it was... But this goes for the... For it to be in the right pH... 05:24 Imagine having no life forever. 05:34 I haven't drank tap water in a very long time. 05:36 Do you have a filter? Do you have a filter in your tap? Do you have a filter? 05:41 Yeah, I got a filter. And I boil it. 05:43 You see, now you have a filter. All these stupid extra things. Such work, man. No, but having a filter is really good. 05:51 I stopped. I stopped. Now I drink tap water straight. So can you taste the difference? Yeah, you can. 05:57 Oh, what do you, is it like, describe the definition? 05:59 It's not, it's not, it's not like metal or anything. It's just like a, it feels like, it tastes cloudy. Yeah, because periods are like metal. 06:04 Periods are like metal. Have you ever gone down with someone on a period? Cloudy. Periods are metal. 06:09 Wait, ask that question again. 06:10 You know when you pour water sometimes it comes out a bit cloudy. 06:14 Have you ever gotten down with someone? 06:16 I think I have. To tell you the truth, I think I have. I think I might have. Yeah, I think I might have. I have, actually. Stop fucking lying, nigga. 06:24 Yeah, nigga. I was pissed off, because she doesn't say shit. Oh, you didn't know. 06:30 Oh, you thought I did it, Willie? I knew. Nah, yo, you a different beast. 06:34 The difference in water and metal, because it's gone down there in the bloody season. Yeah. Yeah. Blats. Let's go blats forever. 06:41 That was against my will. That was unwillingly even. Put you in there. But it happens. I mean, like, yo, it happens as adults, man. You know? 06:53 Oh, it happens. Okay, let me tell you something. Oh, my God. So, my first baby daddy, her dad. 07:00 She said, ah! 07:03 The public know about it, by the way. 07:06 Those who know, know. Those who don't, don't discover. 07:08 It's really not part of my mission. 07:10 So, my first baby daddy. So, imagine, I just ran away from home. So, I don't know the streets at all. 07:16 How old were you? 07:17 19. 07:17 Okay. 07:18 But I was super sheltered. And I was in third year at 19. I was in varsity at 17. Oh, shit. Okay, cool. Yeah, I was a young... I've been a smart kid. Okay. I don't know what happened. Boys. Anyway. And girls. Hey! Talk about et cetera. 07:32 All of them. 07:37 Wait, so I thought about Rowan. 07:41 Rowan? 07:41 He doesn't have data to watch this. 07:44 Is that his name? Is that the guy? 07:48 Nothing. 07:49 Your daughter is like, yo, mom, listen. Hold on. Hold on, moon child. Once in a blue moon, please. Hold on. 07:59 What was I saying? 08:00 You would say you ran away from home 19, your first baby daddy. Yeah, so don't worry about Rowan. Yeah. 08:05 It's okay. It would have died fight. Ah, to me. To me. Shit. Well, sorry in advance. Anyway, yeah, I made it, bitch. So, so, Rowan. I don't know what you were trying to get at. What were we talking about before Galuk? 08:29 You were speaking about leaving home at 19. 08:33 So I don't know a lot. I was sheltered as well as the last born and all that jazz. So now, finally, now I'm eating fish, fish, tinned fish. I'm even eating Nando's chicken liver. My rich aunt and uncle were eating that Nando's one so much. I never ate chicken liver until I ran away from home. 08:54 I will not touch soya, nothing. Because I had to make fucking dishes because between rent and making this shit happen and now you're pregnant, you are definitely a failure at home. 09:03 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, shit, yeah. 09:06 Oh, absolutely. Oh, boner. No, trust me. What's up? What's up? What's up? 09:17 So now you know where you come from. So obviously me I fought and then I just came here because I've always been smart, I've just been different and expressive. 09:42 So they got it wrong. Even my blood got it wrong. So when these motherfuckers go on X and be like, what does your family think? My mother taught me to twerk, my darling. 09:50 Like, I'm not a sock to my family. 09:53 Yeah. 09:55 Yeah, because she used to do it through jazz. 09:59 My mom was a rockstar, she used to have a tavern So she used to host like So how were you not a shock to your family? If that's the case Because the mom's was already Yeah, because my mom, I grew up on my dad's side Oh, okay, okay, okay, okay So on my dad's side, it was very strict and all that jazz Because I feel like I was privileged All that blues, all that jazz Oh, shit Hey, Blue Hey So And so I was taught, I mean art was seen where I come from, from a very young age. 10:35 I grew up, at six months I was already a catalogue baby for Edgars. At four years I was a face of pet stores. We spoke about this last week. 10:42 We actually did bro. 10:44 So my mom bred what I am. Yeah she bred me. But in Port Elizabeth you don't call that stardom. 10:50 Okay, I get it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It doesn't mean you are. What do you call it? 10:54 Wake! It's called Wakey! 10:59 So also, but to be fair, I wasn't like a busy teenager. Like even my friends now, I've only got one friend that I still talk to, my best friend from high school. And then she moved to another school, then she had faster friends. Okay, now she's going to know how I felt about that move. Yes. She had faster friends And I was too slow I was a late bloomer I was 16 in matric I was always the youngest in class So I was a late bloomer So for instance All my friends would do They'd have sex And I wouldn't have sex But I'd ask them about cock Because I'd be watching my brother's stash And lock the doors And so I knew more about sex than they did So therefore I decided Oh no, you guys are weak You don't even know what I'm talking about And you're engaging in it I'm not doing that shit Because it's too common Like when they smoke cigarettes, I was like, oh, all of you are doing it. 11:49 Ew, I'm not doing that. Y'all are too common. So I was a rebel with a cause, actually. And so when I grew up in the streets, literally when I met my first baby dad, I had to grow up very fast. 12:06 And when I moved to Joburg, I was doing this book called, I know Dochi just did it as well, 2011. But I did this book, The Artist's Way. 12:14 And it's a three-month course where you just learn about you and choosing you. And the lesson teaching you about being selfish and not what it's attached to in your upbringing. And so I'm like, am I selfish? No, it's a good thing. You can't fill from an empty cup. So I did that course. And when I was, while I was doing that course, I realized like, so when I was growing up, I always undermined my stepmom for tolerating my dad's bullshit. 12:37 Mm. 12:39 And then when I was with my first baby daddy, when I did the book, I saw so many different similarities. There were different similarities. 12:48 Yeah, I got you. 12:49 And I was like, oh no. Then I got inspired by the person I undermined, my stepmom. I was like, I'm not going to be you. 12:56 You got inspired in that way where it's like... 12:58 I got inspired by what I undermined to not be it. 13:01 Wow. 13:02 When I'm older, I can respect people. We get along in all that jazz. We're good. 13:08 My best friend is my sister from my stepmom. So we're definitely good. This is not shade, but this was my process. You know what I mean? Most definitely. I think I was saying the same thing on the episode. Now I care because my best friend is literally, that's my mom's bestie. 13:22 And so she tolerated so much shit. She inspired me to never tolerate kak. Because my dad was on the side. 13:30 Without teaching it to you directly. 13:31 Oh, yeah. I mean, the same way I believe in faith and more than churchgoers. Because my priest had a side chick, which was the richest girl in the church. And I remember my priest talking about gambling being illegal. I mean, being illegal. Yeah. And then I went to look for my mother at the casino at grade 7. So I was underage. Then guess who I bump into? Mum Fundis. 13:54 Oh, yeah. 13:55 Then I come home and I tell my aunt, I was like, do you remember that time, so my family is not shocked by how I am in general, because I ask that shit like that. I wouldn't be asked like, are they betraying God? No, no, no. I think my church literally, a Baptist church PE, It was just realistic with people, peopling, and faith. 14:25 Peopling is very important. 14:26 And not being deputy Jesus. Because they can't even live up to it. You know? Even God doesn't deputy Jesus. So, no. And in fact, even criminals pray. Because if you read the Bible, you will know the words that empower you. If you're going to be tithing for 20 months, God is laughing at you on some... Because... 14:55 Because I told you in the scripture, you are made in my image and therefore you are. Therefore you can create. You've got hands to create. God is laughing. 15:13 I just want to highlight something that you said. We spoke about it on the episode with Nadia and Toss and Nadia kind of had a back and forth. 15:18 Ah, Loveland. Amen. 15:21 Me and Nadia had a back and forth about like, you know, people who are in less fortunate situations and how they grew up and what that does to their mentality. And I was like, What you just said You learn from someone Not teaching you directly Change is a choice That's what I was saying The whole time Change is a motherfucking choice You can see your family Doing something And choose that You know what I don't want to continue This bullshit So I have no empathy for you If you decide to see some bullshit And you're like Yo this is just how my family is It's like actually Nah Baby let me tell you something You can have a family That supports all your shit And do nothing Because whatever new idea You're going to have They're going to support Hmm 15:56 You can have a supportive family and make them proud to making sure that they know they didn't make a mistake supporting you. You can have a family that is laughing at your dreams and you can cry about them not believing in you. Or you can have that family and you can choose to show them. Ultimately, whatever your background, your future is a choice. Yeah, 100%. Thank you, Moon. You heard it from Moonchild. 16:19 I've been saying this shit, nigga. 16:22 and you know what's crazy the fact that you will go to therapy and then you will deal with people and because you always want to understand the root of how people stem to be like that you will understand it's like you do therapy to understand bullshitters who will never change And that's what happens usually, especially in the beginning of therapy. Because now you're trying to change. You're changing to be a better person. Now you're tolerating back from people who will not change it. I've been in relationships where a motherfucker says, you need help. 16:54 I'm the only one with a therapist. 16:57 Damn. 17:00 Guess who got the therapist for the couple? Me. With a therapist. 17:05 So you've been through couples therapy as well? 17:07 Yeah, one relationship. I can tell you girls is crazy. 17:10 Yeah, same here. 17:12 Are you both a man? How's your experience? 17:14 In the first month, you already know there's no future. In the first month. 17:19 As a woman. 17:19 But it was lockdown, so they were good at admin and I had to work because I got my biggest deal during lockdown and I was doing all the festivals virtually, so I hired a new crew. To a point where when I was doing interviews, people were talking about how hard the world is. I was like, the world is quiet and mine just begun. 17:38 I signed my biggest deal. Talking about deals, you said you're not drinking anymore? 17:44 No, no, no. You're on a new journey? I slip now. I don't drink as much. Yeah, I'll slip. 17:49 Okay, we're going to pour you some tonic so you don't have to take some shots. 17:51 I'll have a tonic to be a sport, yeah. 17:53 Well, just to be a sport, we'll pour you a tonic. 17:55 So yeah, every time we ask a question later on, you're going to have to take a sip of yours. 18:00 Do you know one thing I know? You're going to have shots. I'm here for all the small. Oh, for real? 18:07 Hey, why you do that? Let me do an intro. Let me do the intro to the show. Welcome to the show where the hosts are the goats, where words get fucked, foot means throat, and chokes choke. Because this is a mootie. 18:19 Oh, that's the mootie. 18:24 There we go. Hi, myself. My name is my co-host is... Yo, keep it very simple. Yo, all the smoke is finally landed. For real. 18:42 Shut up, shut up. For those that don't know who you guys are, and I know that there's no way they don't know who you are. 18:48 No, you don't know. You don't know. There's someone who's born today. There's someone who's born today. There's someone who just rebelled from a church family to just go watch TV finally. There's someone who just ran away from a traditional marriage. You know, there's someone who just tuned on to... Speaking of smoke, what is this? 19:18 Yeah, basically. 19:20 And it's only coming towards me. 19:23 It's a sign. The people that have sadness, that's who it goes to. 19:27 No, guys, what does it mean? I don't think so, but I feel like there's a spiritual meaning behind it. It's giving targets. There has to be. 19:34 And it just keeps coming to you. 19:35 And it just keeps going to her. So I don't know if it has intenta or amapati, but it's just... Let me tell you, let me tell you. 19:45 This is Sandalwood. 19:48 There's something shady going on here. Trust and believe. 19:51 In fact, we are out there because we are the age. 20:10 My daughter, you are 17 forever. Forever. What are you trying to say? I'm trying to say nothing I hadn't said. I said what I said. 20:24 I'll be honest. 20:31 I was like, yo, what's going on with Yana? Yana's looking like a grown ass woman. What's going on? I am a grown ass woman. Cause you are a grown ass woman. She's grown. She can do what she wants. 20:41 I want to say grown ass because I'm only 22. Yeah, that's not grown ass at all. So I would say I'm a young man. 20:46 Okay, but when is a grown ass? 20:47 When is a grown ass? When the ass grows, motherfucker. You just said a grown ass and the ass grows. 20:52 It's not about the ass. You look at the ass. You got 16-year-olds with ass. Yanda, I looked at everything. And B.U. looked at everything. And these niggas looked at everything. I didn't see nothing. 21:00 The niggas that shoot your show every week, they look. So you were saying you look at me like that. 21:07 Like that. I didn't say like that. You said that. I just have eyes. 21:10 That's how I noticed the jacket. 21:12 I have eyes. That's what I'm saying. I have eyes, nigga. So how are you looking at her? Guys, Yana didn't look like this the first time I met her. That's what I'm saying. So she grew up in front of you. That's what I'm saying. 21:21 Why? Because when your clock has stopped, you don't think time is moving. How is my clock stopped? How is my clock stopped? How is my clock stopped? How is my clock stopped? 21:33 Do you like them young? Do I like them young? 21:36 Yeah, he did say he's tasted iron. 21:37 He said what? 21:39 On a bleeding meow. 21:41 What? What does that mean? What does that have to do with age? 21:44 When you say meow, I think cat, I think fur. No, but what does that have to do with age, though? So, iron, meow. 21:49 What does that have to do with age, though? 21:51 That's nothing to do with age. I went with the meow, babes. I moved. Did you say meow? No, I said, do you like meow? Do you like him young? 21:57 Oh, young. Yeah. Oh, it's the way I'm talking. 22:00 He's twanging. You are twanging. It's the way I'm talking. 22:04 Oh, my bad. 22:05 I'm young. I'm playing too much. Yeah, I'm shamed. My bad, my bad. 22:08 Are you talking about your parents? 22:10 Yo, actually this is a good way. This is a good way into a topic, right? Do we have a video, right? We have a video, right? 22:18 Did she say her name? 22:20 Hold on, hold on, hold on. Let me land. Let me land. Let me land. Let me land. And the question of do I like them young? 22:30 My ex was nine years younger than me. 22:33 Okay. Oh, say Drake. 22:35 And I think most men are young. 22:38 No, no, no. That bad bitch. I don't know another bitch in your life. 22:42 I know that bad bitch with green hair. That bad bitch. 22:52 Who my baby moms? My baby moms? Nah, she is a bad bitch. She's cool as hell. 22:57 This motherfucker had to tame a bad bitch. Be pregnant, impregnate a bad bitch. I don't think she's... And now I don't see a bad bitch. Once a bad bitch, always a bad bitch. There's a lot of devils that you fuck in your life. 23:12 Oh, shit. 23:13 That can change how you move. 23:15 That's a ball. True. Oh my goodness. I heard semen stays in a woman's body for 27 years. You see why I'm single single for six years? Me, I'm single for six years for a reason. 23:23 I have no time to give a fuck about nobody's son. I have no time to give a fuck about nobody's emotions. First of all, I'm a bad bitch. Now I'm going to date a bad bitch because I'm obviously not dating lower. And now, as a bad bitch, you're used to being fanned and shit like that. I'm used to being fanned, so let's fan each other, bitch, because I'm not fanning a bigger bitch, because I'm a bad bitch, and until you fan me as a bigger bitch, because it's easy and effortless for me to fan you, I can see it coming easy. Six years now, single. 23:52 At a date, I can hear your trauma through the words you choose to use to express everything. anything true facts because it's based like you can read anybody based on the words they choose to use to express any scenario that's So I be reading. Sometimes I be like, oh God, if I had a genie for one night, I'd pray to be oblivious so I can just date for one night. Because I'm too aware. Yeah, I'm too aware too. 100%. I can't do it. 24:19 Facts. I can't do it. 24:20 I go on a date and I know it's a takeaway. I'm the same. 24:22 A takeaway. What does that mean? 24:23 As in like the food, I'm not eating that plate. It's a takeaway. I've already seen the ending. Because the thing about it is, You be seeing the ending in the beginning, but because you just choose to use the love thing or whatever your loneliness is or whatever, you ignore it. And then the end, guess what? It's the beginning. So guess what? I trust the beginning and therefore that is the end. 24:45 But on that note, let's address the age thing, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because there is this thing... Yeah, hold on, hold on. There's this thing about going on now. There was a stat about younger men are choosing to date older women now. 24:59 And we're going to... Yeah, we're 100%, right? I'll give it to you. 25:02 Can we play... This is not the clip, by the way. This is not the clip, right? And again, to BU's question, do I prefer them young, right? Nine years younger for me right now is... 25:13 How old are you? I'm 36. Somebody do the math. 25:17 So that's 27. That's 27. A 27-year-old woman. That was my ex. 27, right? 25:24 But I'm still noticing things that I don't like in terms of teachability. What I don't like at this age is having to... 25:34 to convince you of why something is the way it is and I've been through it, maybe like 10 times over. If I say, yo, I've had three exes where this same thing has happened. That's why I don't want my relationship in a club. That's why I don't want you around me when I do certain things. And you want to sit there and argue with me about why, why, why? And I'm like, listen, there's no way I'm going to learn this lesson for the fourth time. You meet them in the club to teach them about everything they have in the club. She doesn't go to the club. She doesn't have an Instagram. She's all, like, all that shit. But I don't want to have to qualify why I need to move. 26:04 But the other party wants to see why you... 26:07 But I feel like an older woman wouldn't be like that. I feel like a woman... 26:10 So what keeps you away from the older women when you are struggling to mold the younger one? Let me tell you why. 26:20 Because older women are boring, dog. God damn! 26:24 Wait, so what type of older women have you been with? No, no, I feel like if I met a woman like you, right? 26:30 No, no, that's not fucking which one? 26:32 My 18-year-old is, yeah, I had her at 20. 26:39 That's why. That's why. Let me tell you something. Get up, motherfucker. Get up. 26:48 Yo, hold on, hold on. 26:49 Y'all didn't introduce herself. Please introduce herself. Yeah, please introduce herself. I don't like this one. 26:54 Guys, I've been here for the past three, four years. You know who it is. There we go. There we go, nigga. You know me. 27:01 Yanda, don't you have an intro on your show? Doesn't she have an intro? I think she has an intro on the show. And that's another topic we're going to talk about. 27:06 Please play this. We are in class with the classist. 27:10 Yes. Yes. Good one. Please play the clip. The ultimate classist. The ultimate classist. Play that video for us, man. Oh, it's an image. Okay, so the... Is the captioning what? Okay, hold on. Older or younger? A claim circulating online says women over 35 treat younger women with more respect, appreciation, and emotional maturity than women in their 20s. The Post attribute the findings to the journal Evolutionary Psychology claiming men who dated both age groups described older women as better communicators. 27:40 Oh, 100%. With clearer relationship expectations. However... No matching study supporting these specific claims could be found in the journal. So it should not be presented as established scientific research. How do you guys feel? 27:53 I feel like, so when I started getting service provision from younger than me... 28:01 Wait, wait, hold on, guys. 28:02 Guys, my eyes are, my eyes, my eyes are crazy. You see how far this TV is? 28:07 My eyes are, when I tell people, when I tell people my superpower is my eyesight, they don't believe me. There you go. Sorry, I just had to. I just had to. Can you do the same? Yes. Pull it up. Do you know what I do? Okay, we're going to have it again. There's going to be another one. There's going to be another one. No, no. 28:23 And then what's with the tea further away? Yeah, no. She thinks that you're really good. 28:28 All right. So, you were saying what's your... 28:32 So, the study is the sex drive of a 23-year-old male is equivalent to a 33-year-old female because ours goes up and yours declines unless you take care of yourself, like BU. 28:45 Yeah. 28:47 And so it's, it's a, so. Do you know, it's like understanding the rules of your choices. 28:53 Is that a challenge? 29:02 She doesn't know what she's getting herself into. 29:06 I've seen adulting. I know what's up. That was acting. 29:09 The real deal is... 29:11 Okay. 29:12 Okay. Don't pull out condoms now. Come on. I think it is. 29:15 I genuinely think it is. 29:16 Hey. 29:28 Have you ever had BDSM? 29:51 She has definitely tried BDSM. 29:54 I made it so popular. No, I actually made BDSM popular in the black space that Fader magazine felt bad for how it's going to attach to slavery as an international magazine. Because there was a journalist who was just like, this motherfucker is making black girls. Even the people I did BDSM, I know different genres. And I've done them. They've posted on the socials, they're non-risqué stuff. I do it in Cape Town. And so I normalize that shit for the black community, the black body to be a part of it without attaching it to slavery and attach it to freedom. 30:26 Are you a dominatrix? She can be. 30:30 No, no, no. Don't answer for her. Are you a dominatrix? Yes or no? Like, you know something I don't know? Yes, I know a lot of things you don't know. 30:39 Tell me. 30:39 We never max fucked away. 30:40 He's my boy boy. He knows my secret shit. 30:43 I know his secrets. 30:45 No, no. And you can tell them for free. I don't fuck artists. 30:48 Oh, I've never. 30:49 I don't have stories with anybody who's got nothing to lose. You'll never know who I fucked because I deal with nerds with no social media. 30:55 You do deal with nerds. I only deal with nerds. 30:58 I don't know about the no social media But they don't care about Nah they got Fucked up crazy names On their accounts And they post once a year I've got like I deal with private people Oh yeah I don't do public shit I'll give you public I'll serve you Whatever you need from me But my life is mine But now, let's get back to the topic on the age thing. 31:18 Yes. Do you agree with what was said in that statement that all the women do actually like? 31:24 I do agree with the study I've done. And the general consensus psychologically is 23-year-old sex drive is equivalent to 33-year-old women. 31:34 33-year-old women, yeah. 31:37 Boys decline. 31:38 Yeah, girls. Upcline. Yeah, yeah. 31:40 Incline. Up. 31:42 Upwards, yeah, yeah. 31:44 So, I feel like that's a real thing. So then when I bring it to real life outside of just a study, you can understand that a young girl is still worried about cellulite. They don't have much experience and all that does. And all boys can talk about is a tight hole, but they don't know a... They don't know a... What's that thing? A Kegel hole with experience. 32:08 So they will find, like, for instance, if your dick is big as a 22-year-old, it's too big for a 22-year-old girl. But a 32-year-old woman will rock you with experience on top of that. It's not just dick and hole. So outside of just the study, I know it, like, physically, what are you talking about? Like, they get to explore. They get to actually live their wildest dream. 32:31 As a young man with an older woman. 32:33 Yes, because their age mates are still worried about so many parts of their bodies. Cellulite and your coil. Yeah. boobs they worried about so many things even the lights off so with the older woman it's lights on I tell you in fact I teach you it depends on the woman though let's not no there's not just one service and the energy that don't eat but there's ones that as a dominatrix I will tell you what to do because I don't waste my sex. That's why I've got a sex... For the six years I've been single, I've got a sex provider for the six years. 33:04 I will never date him. We will never date each other. I'm too much for him to flow for me. We're not friends. 33:11 Yeah, but you know what I mean. 33:12 We're not friends. 33:13 He's a sex provider. He's a service provider. 33:16 Service provider. I did not fumble my word. 33:19 You don't know what a sex provider is? A service provider. 33:21 As friends with benefits, we don't have to talk. Service provider. 33:28 So I love consistency in general, even if I'm free, I love consistency. So I'm consistently satisfied in my six years single. So my mind space is so free. I don't got a fan. No little boy that needs balloons to say well done little bitch. I don't have time for that shit. I don't have to make time to explain what I just wrote about while living love. I talk my shit. Whether I'm in love or not, the people that have survived dealing with me in relationships are the ones that don't question my reality with them and the reality of my bullshit talking because I will forever talk single. 34:08 I know what you're saying, yeah? Thank you. So you, like, explain to us, like, your family that you grew up with, they know your character, they know your personality. 34:15 In fact, I'm pumping into how much they know me. Remember, I ran away, so I came back after I got famous on TV, didn't see me all the other years. So when I'm pumping into that shit, and I'm just like, oh, shit, I didn't realize I was funny for real. My nickname, one of my nicknames was Mind Your Language, because I sucked at Corsa. 34:32 Mind your language. Yeah, that's fun. 34:34 I sucked at Xhosa so much that I did English and Afrikaans in school. I got kicked out by the Xhosa teacher. She was like, we love you because you make us laugh, but you're going to fail. 34:44 And I did English and Afrikaans in school. I did third language, Xhosa, with a white teacher teaching me Xhosa, third language. It was perfect. 34:50 A white teacher teaching you Xhosa? Yeah. 34:52 Oh, what kind of band do you educate yourself? I had Zulu, Indian lady teaching us Zulu. Does she know Zulu though? 34:57 Nah, she was whack. What the fuck? 34:59 Nah, she was whack. We're looking at her like she's whack. 35:01 So you're basically learning from a textbook? 35:02 Yeah. Or even lower. 35:04 She can't even say it right. That's not the chat though. So I did English and Afrikaans and I had to do Afrikaans first language. 35:13 Yeah, that's not... Higher grade. That's not the check. So, going back to the age thing, right? Whoa. Okay, yeah. You didn't finish your question. Yeah, go ahead. 35:19 Yeah, so fine. Now your parents, your cousins, whatever, your aunts, they know who you are. They know... My entire family is not sucked by one. They don't finish your question. My entire family is not sucked by one. They know Munchal as Munchal. They know your real name as your real name. Saneli. Munchal Saneli. Saneli is my real name. Ah, they know Munchal as Munchal Saneli as Saneli, right? They just know Saneli. 35:39 They don't have time for Munchal. They can celebrate my achievements, whatever title I put them under, but they know me. But they accept you as you are, right? Yeah, and then... I've been what the world is shocked by. Okay. To them. 35:50 So now you go into motherhood, right? Not only are you a person, but you're also a public figure. And you are very free. You know, you are very expressive in your music. You can speak about sex, orgasms, so on and so forth so freely. But, you know, as kids grow up, they tend to tease other kids. So now as a public figure, were there ever like instances where, I don't know, your kid is crying and they're like, oh my gosh, they're saying you're twerking on the internet and kids are making fun of me. Yeah. So now, did you deal with that and how do you deal with it? 36:23 Oh, I have. 36:24 I've been to the schools. And when I go to that motherfucking school, the teacher will be fired two weeks later the most. The principal will be fired too. Because when I'm a mother, I will mother. My job's got nothing to do with these bitches. On top of that, I told my kids, I said, I only climb higher. If you're not going to own it now, you're going to never own it because they envy you. You envy their nine to five parents. Even their parents envy your parents. So you better learn to own it because it's only high from here. 36:54 I'm never stopping or slowing down. This is your reality. And everyone that bullies you wishes they were you. So if you don't own it, that's on you because I keep growing. 37:03 This is what you're saying to your daughter, right? If you don't own this shit, bitch. 37:08 No, wait. Call my daughter to tell you what I've done in her school. 37:11 I don't want her face to be. I don't want her face to be. I don't want her face to be. I don't want her face to be. Because you've kept it pretty private. 37:15 You turn up, basically. No, my face is outside. Literally. Is it? Yeah. She's comfortable. 37:19 Are you comfortable? She can do it. 37:20 She can do this. Are you comfortable? Yes. Waffles. Come. 37:24 Okay, come on. 37:25 No pressure. Hello, Waffles. Without the uncle. Yeah, if she didn't want to, yeah. 37:32 So tell them about just two instances of being bullied at school. What your mother... Yeah, what your mom did for you. Your mom, fuck Moonchild. Your mother did. Okay, do we start with the primary school story? 37:42 Anyone that you feel comfortable with, yeah. 37:44 The Christian school, actually. 37:46 Oh, yeah. Which one? I've gone to like a bunch of Christian schools. 37:50 That other one, Rosebank. 37:52 Okay, so she came to the school. No, no, no, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry. 38:02 I have kids. Give us a story, give us a story. 38:07 So then basically there was like a clip of my mom trending, right? And we just like, we just came back from break, summer break or whatever. 38:18 And then I go back. Now everything that's posted is literally, because we have like a school group, right? It was like a Gossip Girl type of thing. Everything that was posted was what was about me, was about the clip, everything. So then everybody's like, this doesn't make sense. Why is her mom shaking ass and her skirt is that long? You know what I mean? It was because I was very like, I'm very... You know what I mean? 38:44 The opposite. 38:45 The opposite, essentially. So it was that. And then it kept on. It gradually got worse. It was like horrible. And then I was like, yo, please come to my school. That's the last resort. Because you know she's shutting shit down. She's shutting everything down. She's shutting shit down for real. It must have gotten real bad. 39:08 That is the last resort because I try to handle it. That's the last resort. So my mom comes. I'm like, yo, it's okay. Let's just go talk to the principal. She's just like, no, I'm shutting this whole shit down. I'm shutting this school down. It's not happening. I'm like, yo, no, it's okay, bro. Okay, so we go to the principal. 39:30 And then he's like, oh, okay, I'll get it sorted because it was... He said he needs witnesses. And I said, they're like outside the door. Before that, no, because you came back. You came back. So he was like, oh, no, we're going to take care of it. Because it was going on to social media now. So I was getting messages. It was bad. Yes, it was like... Like what? Essentially. 39:54 Yeah, and it's not going to be covered anytime soon. So, how do you own that bitch? Okay, so then, so then, she's just like, okay, next week, she's just like, it's not sorted. I'm going back to that school. She goes back to the school with Ujaya, no? Of course. You go back to the school with Ujaya. And the witnesses. And then, once she brings the witnesses, I'm like, yo, bonanje. 40:17 What's happening today? Because I wasn't told that she was coming through. 40:21 Oh, shit. 40:21 She didn't tell me she was coming through. I embarrassed her because I shut everything down. I'm at break. They're like, yo, your mom is calling you. I'm like, my mom. 40:30 My mom. Like, what do you mean? Because we didn't have a debrief before. We have to have a debrief before. Because if you don't have a debrief, it's going to be bad. Okay, cool. So now I get in. The principal is shaking. I'm like, yo, what's happening? My principal looks nervous. He looks like he's about to cry. I'm like, yo, what did you say? I put my mom outside. I'm like, yo, what did you say to this old white man? Like, what did you say, bro? Because he's sensitive. That's why I wanted to have the debrief. Because it's very sensitive. Like, okay, so my mom is like, I shut you down. 41:04 That's what I did. 41:05 I'm like, no. I did my thing. I stood on business, nigga. 41:08 And then they talk, they talk. Everything gets sorted. The guys pull everything down. 41:15 And then it's a whole thing. And then my mom leaves. My principal, he's crying. Oh, damn. Now he's crying. I'm in the room. No, no, I have to comfort. I'm like, yo, you're cool. 41:28 Why? 41:28 No, obviously, because I'm like, I know whatever my mom said. It's bad. It's bad. So now I'm like, nah, man, you're cool. Like, you're a principal. Like... 41:43 Two weeks later? What happened two weeks later? He resigned. He was gone. You're proud of yourself, huh? You do not fuck. But he didn't take care of business. Can I ask you a question? 41:56 Can I ask you a question? Are you proud of your mom? for being that type of mom. 42:01 Actually, ask her some shit! 42:04 You know why I asked that question though? Munchal, you know why I asked her that question? Because the story that you're telling, it reminds me of my mom. You know? 42:15 It reminds me of my mom. And my mom was pretty much the same. She would come and shut shit Down. And at the same time, she would whoop my ass. And at the same time, she would whoop my ass. You know, if I was fighting at school, my mom's the type of mom, and I said this on the show before, she would come, she'd ask me in front of the principal, hey, did you feel like you had to do that? And I would be like, yes. And then she'd be like, yeah, he said he felt like he had to do it. Give him his punishment, I'm out. You know what I mean? So I think that's really dope. And I can see, like, the way you are, you're so much opposite from your mom. 42:48 But I can see, I can tell that the values have been instilled. And for me, that's the dopest thing that you get from a mom that's like that. 42:56 There's no violence in my house, okay? Same here. 43:00 I refuse to hit my children. I refuse. 43:02 I don't hit my children. I've never been hit out of love. 43:06 To a point where I've never been with my voice and my mind and how I speak my motherfucking mind. I've never been beat in a relationship because violence has never been my language with love. So I don't attach violence to my mom because it was out of love. There's no reasoning with violence with me. There's no violence in my house. There was no violence in my age. There was no violence for my mother. 43:30 So what she's perpetuated is freedom of speech, respect, and no fear. 43:39 That's why we're friends. But we're homies to a point where I can protect her when she's doing shit. I can know about everything she engages in. If she tries whatever she doesn't know from home, she can tell me she tried it so I can protect her. She's not scared to be addicted to whatever she may try. To a point where she only drinks around me because it's monitored. She doesn't do clubs with friends because they don't have VIP and her uncles and aunts. Oh, it's just an inconvenience. Yeah, it's not the same. 44:10 Well, that's how she puts it. Explain it in your word. 44:12 No, it's like... We go in, I'm like, yo. Why are we not making space? Like, what's going on? You know what I mean? Because her aunt is Devon Gogo. Her uncle is Chava. Her mom is Munchal. She never has had to struggle or look for a section. We have to go look for a section. So therefore, she doesn't party with friends. That's when I'm like, okay, guys, I'm calling my Uber. I'm sorry. I can't comment. I like that. Keep that up. Keep that up. Keep that up. 44:36 Because there's nothing worse treating a woman that doesn't understand that. There's nothing worse. Yes. Of course you're going to call me. You're hurt. Someone hurts you. I'm calling me. Everybody hurts. Okay, great. My ex. I love it. 44:47 There's nothing worse than a woman that doesn't understand the level of what she should be operating. You've got to explain over and over and over. I have to ask questions like, baby. 44:55 How did you turn it around to your love life? It's a techo show. Don't you notice? Come on. 45:00 This is where we go. Techo show. Okay, but Moon, what I wanted to say, right? 45:04 No, I wanted to say something. You want to turn it around to make it about you. Okay, ready? 45:10 Munchal's been watching the show, by the way. She knows we use jokes. Go ahead. 45:16 Here's the chat. 45:18 I highlighted fear because, for instance, there's a situation that happened while I was on tour and my daughter called me to say, yo, nigga, I drank without you. And then the teenagers only had these drinks and I mixed everything and all that jazz. And this motherfucker tried some shit. Oh. 45:36 Let me tell you something, she could only tell me because she didn't have to hide the fact that she drank outside of me. 45:42 Trust and no fear. 45:46 Fear you can still own up to what the actions were to be protected in the end because you're still a kid. But you've got a parent that understands what kids are because if you're gonna ignore the things that you did, And the things that you wished you did, because they had lockers in your house, you couldn't sneak out. You were prevented. But that thought process existed in that age frame. Because when we fought the most, we fought the most when she was 17. I had to Google. 46:13 That's the worst age ever. I had to Google. I had to Google. I was just like, no fucking way. 46:20 And we would not speak for a month. I don't know why it was bad. I shut down. I speak or I shut down. She... 46:30 She gets mad. Then she shuts down. She gets avoided. That's why she's my nega. 46:38 You seem like an avoidant. You seem very reserved. You seem like reserved. 46:42 I am reserved. 46:43 No, but she'll call out shit. Well, compared to your mom. 46:47 She knows me at home She also looks like she'll call shit out She also looks like the type to call shit out She calls shit out in general But listen, what I wanted to say Piggybacking off of something that you said No, no, no I can't eat swine Can you beef back? 47:03 Can you beef back? No, it's not beef though I love beef though But it's not beef, right? Okay, okay, okay Let's talk about Wagyu Can you Wagyu beef this? 47:17 You said something that I feel like is very important because I don't think a lot of people think of the other side of it. You said that you grew up and learned to not accept abuse because you didn't see your mom go through it or that thing wasn't a thing in your household, right? 47:32 No, beatings. Beatings are attached to love when it's in your upbringing. 100%, but then you did mention the fact that you've never been hit. Beatings for me to attach to love to accept it in relationships all day. 47:43 Yes, so now here's the thing. There's so many people that grew up like you, but then later... in life your daughter could be a victim of that even though she grew up in a house where her mom is so strong where she never saw that kind of behavior and her mom never accepted that shit right but it's possible that she might have a moment of weakness do I call it a moment of weakness do I call it it is a moment of weakness but I don't want to I don't want to just minimize it to that but it's not a moment of weakness it's reality basically yeah Is it reality? 48:12 No, actually, look, we can get to this with the whole story. But a moment of weakness, let's not call it that. Because when you weaken the brain, then the body shuts down. Because someone targets your mentality, which is your drive. 48:28 Can I take a shot, too? 48:29 Do you know what I mean? Your mentality is a trap. Yeah, she can drink around. 48:32 My name is Artemis. 48:33 Artemis, goddess of the moon. 48:35 But you call it Waffle. Shout out... I want to give a big shout out to Artemis slash Waffles. 48:40 A huge shout out. Why is everyone laughing? 48:41 I want to give a big shout out to her. 48:42 You know why? Yes. Yes. Yes. The reason why I'm giving a big shout out And I need you to look at me and ask, are you okay? What happened? 49:07 Yes, she can't swallow it. This is what happens when you leave the Bantuizis and you enter the real nigga realm. 49:17 I wanted to give a shout out to you. 49:19 Yeah. 49:20 There's something your mom said earlier on about she watched her aunts and what they did and she chose not to take that path. And what I got from that was no matter who's your parents, no matter what style they have, no matter what their finances, it's still your choice. So the person that you are, you have cultivated that person. Yes, your mom has added the ingredients, but you choose, okay, I'm not going to use this. I'm going to use this. So big shout out to you. And I think that's what you've been, that's what you've been talking about. 49:51 And to add on top of what he's saying, not only have you cultivated who you are at this point, I feel like the cultivation that you've had at this point is actually the smallest part of you. that's going to be your life. It's the tip of the iceberg. It's this small. There's still so much growing. 50:11 Yeah, definitely. 50:13 And what do I say? You can still continue choosing what kind of woman you're going to be going forward. Even more than you've had the choice to be now. You know what I mean? And I think that's so dope that your foundation is what it is now. I think a lot of kids are going to look at you right now and be like, damn, I wish my parents... We're like, that's dead understanding. But then I'm sure there's a lot of parents that are going to be looking at Moonshiles. 50:36 Yeah, be like, dang, this nigga is... Nah, I'm not taking that risk. 50:41 All right, cool. 50:41 Is she following? 50:42 All right, cool. 50:43 Are you following now? All right, cool. All right, cool. 50:46 All right, cool. 50:47 Ah, yeah, yeah. 50:49 Which one is the one for the drinks to go down? Is it the esophagus or the trachea? 50:53 Yeah, one of those. The esophagus. Not the trachea. 50:55 It's the esophagus. 50:56 The trachea sounds very dangerous. Like the trachea sounds like it's a pressure. It's like a... No, based on what I remember from biology. 51:04 The trachea is the one that consumes and the esophagus... That means that... How much do you really remember? Guys, Google. Is it reliable information? 51:14 No, it's not. If you want me to be honest, no, it's not. 51:17 But the eosophagus sounds better. 51:20 Between the eosophagus and the trachea, one is for eating, one is for breathing. And it went into the wrong hole. 51:26 Into the wrong hole. 51:28 Sometimes it goes into the wrong hole, you know? 51:30 Then it went into the trachea. That really does happen. It was supposed to be staying in the trachea. Then it went into the eosophagus. Why? Take that mic, girl. Grab that mic. Okay. 51:54 We were just telling your daughter how special your relationship is. And I really think she's got such a bright future ahead of her. A lot of choices to make. 52:05 A lot of choices to make. 52:11 No, it was a side note. 52:16 Thank you for having me. 52:18 Shout out Artemis. Shout out Artemis. God damn. 52:29 Yo, okay. What's been happening this week? Biu, do you have any topics for us? Anything that's been happening? 52:34 Yo, I saw something that says, can a man make a woman happy without money? 52:40 Let's ask Yanda. 52:41 That's why I want to ask. Do we have a clip? 52:44 Do we have a clip for it or no? Do we have a clip for it? Okay, before we ask Yanda. 52:48 Yeah, I think Moonchild is going to have such a wildly different answer than Yanda. And I would like to hear Yanda first. 52:53 I want to hear Yanda first and then I want to hear Moonchild. I told you me and Yanda started a show. But after the clip. 52:58 You'll be so shocked. Who's going to be shocked? 53:01 Y'all would be so shocked about our connection with Yanda. 53:05 You've done a whole thing. 53:08 Okay, okay. Oh, she also got invited to the private party. 53:10 Over a couple of days. 53:12 So I know Yanda. Yanda's got my captain at home. You will be so shocked. I promise you. This one. 53:20 Yo, Yanda, let me ask you a personal question. Don't you think that you're outgrowing the Bantu Isis there? 53:26 I would say I've outgrown a certain view of the Bansfizis. Because when I got here, I was 18, I'm 22. So I think I have grown, but I haven't grown with them, you know? So now maybe, I think the topics maybe that we're still speaking about aren't what they relate with right now at this stage in their life. So, and I think what... 53:54 is making our comeback even bigger. The fact that we're now realizing, we're not the same people that we were like three, four years ago. We've all grown. Not only have the hosts grown, but- The people that- Yeah, the viewership has also grown. And now that we're at that point, we are so back. Are you guys back? Getting numbers. 54:17 Is it because of Nakuida? Is it because of Nakuida? Is it because of Nakuida? What about Nakuida? Is it because of Nakuida? 54:25 I was going to ask about it. I was going to ask. Is it genuinely because... Is Nakuida now the new person? Or is Nakuida temporary? Because we know what fee she doesn't do podcasts on. 54:36 To be fair, I don't work in the HR departments. I don't have the power to hire a fire. No, but they say Nakuida's here. 54:41 No, no, outside of HR, the questions before the HR part of the payment. Yes. Is... 54:46 Mars out or is she temporarily out because she's got work outside do you know like when you work in a soap that allows you to do other things I wouldn't know to be fair I don't know I come here I come here I work I get paid I go home Yanda doesn't give a fuck 55:06 I really don't. No, she doesn't. 55:08 That's important. 55:09 That's very important, by the way. 55:12 I want to say it's important because it's different between me and BU. 55:15 There's no way BU is going to not arrive there and me not know why you're not here or me get on the call with you. 55:23 Usually BU calls me to tell me, hey, bro. Because you guys love each other. 55:30 Maybe we're just adults like that. Maybe we're just adults like that. 55:33 You guys have that type of brotherhood. Do you know what I love, Mianda? We don't care about each other, but it's not that deep. 55:41 Do you know what I love? It's the fact that when motherfuckers are losing, they have to pull out the age card on some like, we must be older. Just because you don't relate. Continue doing you, baby. 55:52 You know why I asked? 55:56 You don't like mama? I hate mama. 55:59 Oh shit, I didn't know. 56:00 Mama, CC, mommy. 56:03 Why? 56:03 What do you like? What do you like? No, no, no, no. Why? 56:05 No, no, no, no, no. Why? Where ma? I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 56:09 I'm sorry. 56:10 I'm sorry. 56:14 Oh no, but he never called me that. 56:25 He wasn't like, he's not like Zulu, Zulu like that. Just call me Yanda, bro, ma. 56:29 I'm sorry, I've got to call you mama. I'm with you. 56:32 I just love saying mama. He's a Zulu, Zulu, Zulu Buddha. You're a Zulu, Zulu, Zulu. 56:37 I can tell you, without seeking, I knew his name because he dated you. 56:44 And so, shout out to the promotions, babe. 56:46 Wow. 56:47 I also heard when you said you're done with rappers now. 56:50 I'm so done with rappers. Oh, trust me, I watch everything. 56:53 It's a long life. 56:54 You've got a lot of choices. 56:56 Oh, that's what they say. Very long life. Thank you. Yes, high five. 56:59 Oh, because you're a rapper. 57:00 Nigga. Let's play this video. 57:02 Let's get this video going. Let's hear your guys. Wait, hold on. Start again. 57:06 Because a man made his own money. 57:12 Can you read? 57:12 Let me see if you can read because I just read it. 57:15 A man with no money makes women... Can a man with no money make a woman... 57:30 Can a man with no money make a woman happy in a relationship? That's the question. Play that video. 57:37 And notice how the white girl said yes. 57:48 The bunnies. The white girls. The white bunnies. 57:50 The white bunnies. Because they just don't know how to act when they don't have money. Here he is. Here he is. Here he is. Here he is. Here he is. Here he is. 57:59 New money is the most embarrassing motherfucker. Yeah, turn it off. Because all the black girls say no. And it's only the white girls. 58:06 My new money is the worst thing ever. 58:10 That's not the question. I want to understand. What was the question? Can a man with no money make a woman happy? Start this side. You loaded. We know you loaded. You don't even know my answer yet. 58:28 You said watch how all the white girls are saying yes, right? Because, thank you. 58:33 Black girls should be asking for new money and black girls don't have old money. 58:39 Historically speaking, white people have always had old money. So now in their minds, they're not thinking, oh, I need to date up, right? As black girls, we've always been taught you need to date up. 58:51 Do you think that's right though, Yanda? 58:53 Is that what you're going to teach your daughter? 58:56 No, no, no. Let her finish. Let her finish. Don't change the narrative. She must finish her story because you already said white girls are going to say no. Because you don't know a lot of rich black girls. The white girls. Quick video, man. Shoot a messenger. Yanda. Teach them. 59:13 Yanda. 59:15 Do you think? 59:15 I wouldn't teach my daughters that because I want my daughters to date or marry whoever they want to marry. Now, me specifically. She would. And this is just me. I see. And this is me alone. 59:31 I see not because of, well, maybe because of how I was raised, but I see marriage as a business agreement, if you think about it. Yes. It is. That's why I'm never getting married. 59:41 Okay, carry on, carry on. 59:42 Elaborate on that. 59:44 But who's going to marry you? No one. No one is going to marry me. 59:47 And first of all, women don't decide to get married. It's the man that has to decide if they want to marry the woman. It's period. 59:53 You have no choice. 59:54 You have no choice. 59:55 I feel like Donald Trump has decided to marry you. You get chosen. Donald Trump has decided to marry you. 60:01 No, you're not going to do that. 60:02 Orange cup. Not to you, obviously, but you get what I'm saying. You've been married because you've got that bitch in your cup and you're married to it. You don't even know how to divorce it. You divorce drugs, but you don't divorce the liquor. 60:17 But can I tell you why? Can I tell you why? Has all the smoke landed or what? It has landed. Me personally, if I get married, it has to be some sort of business arrangement in a sense because the life that I live now, I want my kids to live even better than that. Okay. I want my kids to be the ultimate Nepal babies. Yes, I want them to be grateful for everything they have. Yes, I want them to be talented. Yes, I want them to be successful. However, I want to build a certain foundation for them. 60:49 Okay, now have you ever heard the term that you can't live for your kids? No. Have you heard that? 60:55 No. 60:56 You haven't heard that? No. Moonchild exhibited that same thing. Yes, literally. Right? So what you're saying is you want to give your whole life away for your kids and I get it. No, that's what she's saying. No, no, no, wait. 61:07 So I'm saying, Yana, Yana, what about the actual relationship though? She comes from a background of parents that worked hard enough as black parents for her to not struggle. She's not going to teach them something she doesn't know. She's going to perpetuate that black magic. I don't want Moonchild to talk to you. That's what she said. 61:21 I don't want Moonchild to talk to you. 61:22 Okay. 61:23 So then, what about... Okay, let me give an example. What if you go through the first man who you think is going to provide you with the perfect environment for your nephew? 61:33 What is a perfect environment? No, wait, wait. Muchach, wait, wait. Because if your parents go, there's no way he motherfuckers is going to come with me now. And that's the same way that Yanda is in the same position. No, no, I didn't land. But because her parents taught her gold, she's not fascinated by glitter. Okay, I get you. Wait, wait, wait. The thing is you really understand it. She's trying to understand it. No, no, no, no. Don't add to the chaos, please. No, no, no, no. Don't add to the chaos. 62:04 I didn't finish my scenario though. I didn't finish my scenario though. 62:08 I feel like you guys don't drink enough. Well, wow. 62:24 Wow. 62:24 Wow. And you guys... A shot of rounds for... 62:30 Wait, she doesn't drink. No, no, no. All right. Can you please pour me some tonic water? 62:35 I've run out. 62:39 So this is a scenario, right? 62:42 Let's say assume. Not saying that you would have multiple babies. 62:44 Please don't be a character in this story. 62:45 Not saying that you would have multiple baby daddies. Hypothetically speaking. Not saying that, right? Not saying that, right? Yeah. Let's say... 62:54 But let's say Your first guy that you get with Your first guy that you get with Is Sharp Thank you He's the perfect guy to Provide this environment For the perfect nipple babies Whatever right You have a child with him And then that doesn't work out Right Baby daddy number one Then you meet another guy Oh same shit Right Baby number two Okay, the third guy At what point then does it hit you that damn I've been chasing this dream for my children But clearly the love never works out when I approach it that way Can I tell you something? 63:28 When, at which point then would you abandon that dream? At which point would you abandon the Okay, shit, maybe it's not about the Nepal baby shit Maybe it's about my love Actually, if my kids see me happy They're learning something wholesome. You know what I'm saying? So at what point do you give up on that? Is there any point where you're like, I will never be with a man that doesn't have money. I don't care. I'll die on the sword. 63:56 I fully hear you, right? And now I'm not having kids with certain men for a certain lifestyle. Because to be fair, I come from that lifestyle. I can make that lifestyle on my own. Which is why today I'm able to work so many jobs to make money. But groupies, bitch. I'm able to pay other people their salaries because I'm able to be an independent woman on my own. I'm not saying, yeah, guys, actually, I'm so desperate. And I want to date a rich man, so on and so forth. Fuck that shit. 64:24 Fuck that shit. No, I'm saying my parents were able to pay... 64:32 My great-grandparents were able to provide my grandparents, who were able to provide my parents, who was able to provide me and my siblings with that lifestyle. 64:42 And you have to provide for your cats right now until kids are coming. 64:45 So now I'm saying I would like to continue this legacy. Yes, it would be nice to be married with a man who comes from a rich family, such as, I don't know, the Manongas. 64:56 They don't make you feel like you think you're better than them. They don't make you feel like you think you're better than them. 65:01 What's the Manongas, yeah? 65:02 There's a lot of them, right? 65:03 But even if I don't get married and let's say I have kids, I'm still able to provide my kids with a very comfortable and very luxurious lifestyle. 65:10 I don't need a man. I want a man. 65:29 But even if I don't have the man, I can still provide the man. 65:32 So my question is, at what point do you just say, okay, now this is all about the love? As long as you've got glitter, bitch, I've got gold. 65:41 I'm all about the love. 65:42 I'm broke, I act like broke, bitches. Yeah, but let's say you reach the age of 30. 65:45 And for a rich bitch or an independent bitch, you will always live to explain. I'm coming to you, don't worry, I'm coming to you. 65:52 Let's say you reach the age of 30, right? Let's say you reach the age of 30. Would you... Would you then say, you know, I've lived life, I've maybe got a kid, right? Let's say I've got a kid. That's your age, babe. And then maybe, and then maybe my thinking has kind of changed. Do you ever see yourself... Why has my thinking changed? I don't know why it's changed, but you've got all the money you could ever need. You could buy a boy, babe. So you don't need demand for money. 66:18 At what point do you just make it about love? No, I just want a partner. 66:22 I don't mind having munchalia every month. 66:25 I love it. 66:25 You see, when I'm not the bully, I love it when I'm not the bully. 66:29 I need someone else. 66:42 To be the bully. 66:46 Are we on? Because of the communities we come from, they called me a bully. Turns out I was a leader. Literally. 66:55 That's how I feel about myself. That's how I feel about myself. 66:58 But we will finish off. You must feel small about yourself knowing you were called a bully to call me a bully. You must know I must be bigger. 67:05 Yeah, you're a bigger bully. Yes, a bigger bully. Yeah, a bigger bully, for sure. 67:08 You can call me a bully and say you were called that too. 67:11 There's no way you can call me. 67:14 You watch all this book. You know what's up, nigga. 67:16 Please, put out your gun. 67:18 I can't ask you over here. 67:21 You fought with our best friends. You know what? Do not trump up as in us. 67:36 I don't get it. Ask him to lift his t-shirt. If he doesn't know, he's got the gun. Yes, I get you. It's not a gun. It's not a gun. 67:45 It's not a gun. It's not a gun. 67:56 So, you know, racist dogs, because there's a color palette of what to chase. No. 68:25 The matches are matching. I need you guys. If you think I'm lying, dare him to lift off his T-shirt. Are you strapped right now? No, no, no. It doesn't matter what he says. That's not what I asked you to do. Why would I do that? Why would I do that? 68:44 I heard you said ass. Nah, that's crazy. No. 68:47 Oh, wait. Could you get the skirt from Zara? I had the exact same skirt. No, I got it from... I got it from... Rita Ora's range from... Ziafana. 69:00 Was it sold in Zara? 69:02 No, I don't know Zara. 69:03 I got it from Rita Ora in my hand. 69:07 Is the camera still catching her? 69:08 Thank you. I don't know. Who is Zara? Who is that? That's wild. We can flex on each other, that's okay. I don't know Zara, dog. 69:24 I don't know. Yo, but can we finish Yanda's point? Okay, calm down. It's see-through already. It's whiter than fair skin. 69:29 No, because I barely use it. 69:31 Because your belly was full of the tacos in the container. Yes, because you make great food. 69:53 Because you're such a good... Oh, you took your shoes off and put them on the couch? 69:57 My nigga. Real nigga. This is crazy. Now I got to relax. Come on. He just took his... It's like we just walked into the strip club now. 70:12 What happened was Moonchild and I were both on a... 70:15 reality TV show. 70:17 What show were you on? A reality TV show. 70:19 We signed NDAs and we got paid goods. We signed very big NDAs. We can't fund that check. No. Oh, okay. We were both on a reality TV show and I was very hungry. Nga tatis kaftin because pengi petwa yini in lala. Oh, wow. So wait, wait, wait. 70:35 Before she gets to the fact that she took a takeaway of my food, she needs to mention the fact that she only ate so much and took it home because she was very hungry. Just highlighting. 70:47 Okay, okay. 70:49 Continue. 70:52 I was very hungry. So my food was not just great. 70:57 It's not about your food. 70:59 You took a whole Skaftin from my house? 71:00 Fine, your food was that good. 71:01 It's still in your house? 71:02 Fine. Yes, it is. Do you want it back? 71:05 Not the food. I make it better. I can take the Skaftin back with the Skaftin extra so I can take the Skaftin back to your place to make that bitch. 71:14 Oh, you know what would be nice? 71:15 Let's actually do a thing. Yes. 71:17 Yeah, let's do it. Can I come to a place with this caffeine? Then you make me the food and then I go back home. 71:23 No. 71:24 Can we all come? You come with the caffeine. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'd like to be there too. You guys are coming on little... Can we all come? 71:28 No, no. You're coming on 19-year-olds so much. 71:32 Come down. 71:34 Yanda, we're together here. 71:36 She's not getting a snack. Yanda, tell her. No more streaming for you ever again. 71:40 And also tomorrow on my podcast, I've got Aaron, who you stream that shit with at my cousin's camp, who you're fighting with. How are you at DJ Slim's camp without making music for DJ Slim? 71:52 Guys, let me tell you. Guys, let me tell you. I'm the type of guy that if I don't have a problem with you and you have a problem with me, I'm still pulling up. You will tell me when I get there if you have a problem with me. 72:07 Do you know when they say I stand on bullshit? I just became the metaphor. Chuck your shit. 72:12 Chuck your shit. So the answer to your question is if you have a problem with me and I don't have a problem with you, I'm pulling up to your shit. And if you have a problem with me, you will tell me there's a problem. If you don't tell me there's a problem, I guess there's no problem. 72:32 If you want to smoke, you get smoked, man. Either way, I can provide. Let's get into it. 72:37 I guess there's no problem. So, first of all, this mother don't fuck with my cousin. 72:43 This motherfucker had my cousin come doing a live stream. Who's your cousin? So this cousin, obviously, when I study this shit... 72:51 Shut up, motherfucker. Who's your cousin? Bati, shut up, motherfucker. No, but who's your cousin? Bati, shut up, motherfucker. 72:57 No, but we need to know who your cousin is. 72:59 They're gonna know. 73:01 How are they gonna know? 73:02 Let me tell them about how... Bati, shut up, motherfucker. 73:08 Shut up, motherfucker. All right, all right, all right, all right. Story time. 73:12 Parker, goes to my cousin's camp. 73:17 My cousin is DJ Slim Boulevard. And Luna and Tweezy's got the camp, yeah? Yes. I haven't contributed my studio speakers to the camp because I bought a studio during lockdown because I would work while the world stops. 73:33 And because you're a rich, booked and busy bitch. 73:38 Straight up, bitch. 73:40 The only reason I'm on this podcast. Can I Dr. Malinka my moment? Dr. Malinka, your moment, you... Guys, my taxes are paid. Exactly. My employees are paid. In full. I'm not paid. 73:59 But you still got the money. 74:03 No, I've got equity. Shut up. We're still talking about the camp. 74:09 I pulled up to finish that story. 74:11 Yeah, you're camping now. 74:13 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 74:14 That's not a camp. You are camping. No, I'm about to talk my shit. 74:16 So South Africa. 74:20 Before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, before you get there, what are your car names? 74:39 What are you claiming? 74:41 Is that, oh, Dr. Bachuloba, it matters for Zam, as it is, as it is connecting. 74:50 I don't know if you know about meta in the bones And I narrated the scenario like this And they told me to go home because it sounds like a joke 75:13 What? 75:14 Yeah, I feel like I'd have to act to narrate it differently. What? So guys, South Africa, it promotes us as in this. 75:23 I'm not. 75:25 At all. 75:26 We need to do that again. 75:30 Do it again. Do it again. 75:33 So guys, it promotes us as South Africa. Yes. But... 75:43 I know. What's going on? 75:46 I trust you, Moon. I trust you. And guys, the thing about it is, it's shit in all street languages. Exactly. It may be in the Queens. It may be in the Gabby's. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, no, no. 75:59 Continue, but take one. 76:01 It may be in London. 76:03 Anyway. For as long as he's busy picking them up, I can say what I want to say so he can foster. 76:11 Yanda's picking them up. 76:12 That's the crazy thing. To be fair, I may be a small brat, but my parents raised me with respect. Shout out to that. 76:23 Please take one, Yanda. Please take one. 76:30 I think that's my own. Hey. Just one, yeah. Yes, ma'am. 76:50 You only gag on dick, babe. You only gag on dick. Anyway, I didn't say he takes dick. I said he's gagging on teeth. 76:57 Everyone can get it. 76:58 Everyone can get it. Hello. 77:01 Shock me. Tell me something. 77:03 Do you want a question? Do you want a question? If you entertain this nigger, this uncle who's trying to promote his business to you. 77:11 Explain again, bro. It's your thing. Do your thing. Guys, okay. So let's play a round of the Smokey Balls. Moon, if you would do me a favor, please just pick your question from the Smokey Balls. Fuck a favor. 77:21 Just pick your question so we can do a round, right? And I explained earlier, the rules are, if you don't want to answer your question, you take a shot. In the case of BU, I don't know what we're going to make him do. In the case of Moon, she's going to take a shot of a tonic. And that's cool, right? Who wants to start first? 77:35 So technically, you and me are the only people that are drinking. 77:38 But this is me all the time. But y'all about this life. Because sometimes we have guests that don't drink at all. 77:43 We're not new to this. We're true to this. 77:45 Come on now. 77:46 There we go. Yeah. 77:47 Yeah, not new to this. We're true to this. 77:49 So who wants to go first? I'll go first. 77:50 You go first? 77:51 I was just joking. 77:52 That means Yanda is after you and I'll go first. 77:54 Oh, is he picked up at the same time? 77:57 Hurrah, hurrah. Read your question, please, my brother. What is the one thing that keeps you up at night? Hmm. 78:04 Do I go after you? 78:05 Yes. So this question is directed to me. The one thing that keeps me up at night is quite a few. There's two things, but I'll group it as fear and anxiety. Right. I'm an actor. I put on these characters. Right. So these are these. I see them as real. And when they come into my world in terms of when I'm learning the bio and I'm preparing for it. it upsets what I currently have. So when I'm going on set, it's not just the lines thing. It's more this world that I have to live in. 78:37 And currently right now, I'm locked in. I'm on work mode. And people who know me can see the small things, right? But another fear is losing all of this work that I've done. Like just to a, I don't know. That's the thing. It's like, I've wanted it so bad. I've wanted it so bad for so long that every time I wake up in, let's say in the morning, I wake up, I'm like, Oh this is my life now Like cause I've wanted it I've seen it for so long So it's like It can't go And if it does How the fuck do I get it back Is that why you're drinking tea? 79:08 Yeah please do To make sure you make conscious decisions Sorry guys Let's not speak at the same time right? So with you Be you Right? When you get a role When you A role. 79:18 A role. 79:21 An acting role. But when you get caught as a specific character, do you sometimes write, now read the script, and now you start becoming that character? Now, BU is no longer BU. You are now that character. Or you have certain characteristics of that character. Does that happen? 79:41 Are you a method actor? 79:42 No, I'm not. Both are true. I take a bit of both. Method acting is very dangerous. Yes. Very dangerous. I don't think anyone should just do it. You end up killing yourself. Shut up. 79:53 Your friend was here the other day. The actors that we had on. There's quite a few actors. And they spoke about it. No, I mean, sorry, Gwenzo was here talking about another actor. Exactly that. 80:01 It's a very, it's a dangerous thing because there's make-belief and it's belief. And as an actor, you have to believe. 80:06 But this is what I've been saying about actors. This is why I believe actors are the craziest in the art form of art. I feel like actors are a monk. It takes you there. some of the craziest. Because they play so many people and so many emotions that you have to receive. 80:20 I'm going to need to speak on that as an actor. I don't think that it's crazy. I think throwing the word crazy is wrong. 80:27 Maybe I should apologize and say... Actually, do you know what? I totally get what you're meaning. Maybe what, Nikki? Just because I receive... 80:36 Artists are crazy, actors are crazier. It's the reception of crazy, not because I think I'm a lunatic, but I feel like I'm crazy for deciding to chase. I don't think you're a lunatic. I'm choosing to decide what I'm great at. I'm choosing to decide to do this form that's not respected. I'm choosing to be great and respect this shit that I know I'm born for. I choose to do that shit. But... My character playing is so different to yours because I build the characters. I write the story. 81:06 You play characters of stories written. The difference between a musician and an actor. And your ability to flex without toys. That is the difference between a musician and an actor. I'm not saying that actors are crazier than musicians. 81:17 So you're not taking a side. 81:19 Just because we've got a hand in creating... the character and play it and write as it without being looked as crazy insanity in society actors being able to do that not everyone in that art form not everyone has the ability to write the characters that are able to imagine and portray because they have the imagination therefore they'll play in someone's imagination so it's actually equal parts crazy because Part of my connecting. 81:51 I hear what she's saying. I definitely understand what she's saying. Or an experience. I don't know if it's equal. In whatever words I choose to use. The simpler the words. The more connected we are. Because we go through same things. The same way. The character role. As an actor. I don't think it's about. I don't think. 82:10 You all have experienced it, but there's someone around you who's experienced it. So we're all playing characters. The difference is we are the writers of the characters. They play the characters until they have the position of writer. Our life schemes and our lifespans in our careers and creativity are not the same because you get more money from portraying a character you've created and connecting to people who've experienced the same thing at a different time. As a musician or actor? Musician. Writer. Writer. Historian. 82:41 storytelling and then a storyteller that he portrays is the same way that he hasn't gotten the ability to write about it yet but he plays the things that the musicians are it's the first role of a musician is to create a story to connect to everybody the role of an artist is to portray a story that was written already so It's the same role But different Processes Yes Because your process To write To be respected Outside of being respected From not writing And portraying a character That was created Is one thing Me doing a character The story I'm writing Needs to connect To community For it to be a hit First of all yeah Therefore, our roles are like this. 83:21 But it's the same fucking thing. We are all motherfucking crazy. 83:25 And what I will say is, though, actors, you guys are under a lot more pressure in the sense that you have to be skilled at playing different people, first of all. portraying different emotions. And then if you happen to be a method actor, which you say you are not, but there are method actors like Heath Ledger. I dabbled him. Like Heath Ledger, that shit is so dangerous. Like at Min Moonchild at the beginning, we were talking about therapy. I would only imagine how many therapy sessions I would have to go to to play a rapist, to play a serial killer, to play a demented ass. 83:59 Like I can only imagine, right? That's why I have to give you respect for being able to balance yourself. But that's also why I say that you guys, in the art form of art, I feel like you guys, if not the craziest, you guys have it very hard. 84:14 Very hard. 84:16 I just think we need to be careful of using the word crazy. 84:19 That's why I said very hard. That's why I took it back and I said, you guys have it hard. 84:23 The reason why I say crazy is because... 84:26 The geniuses are crazy. 84:27 Yes. Genius and insanity, that's a math. Within line between. Yes, I agree. So, wait, wait, let me bring it back. There is a thin line. 84:34 Let me bring it back. See, since I'm trying to land, I'm trying to land my point. 84:37 Wait, wait, wait, wait. Within line, wait. Before you get your thin line, let me add. Genius and insanity are a math. I remember when I had a team in South Africa and they said I'm acting like a diva. First of all, I'm a last point. Second of all, I know my story. So all of those conglomerated feel like a bitch because I'm not taking your shit. But you shouldn't let them define you. And then when I was with my team overseas, my bitch, what they tell it to be in South Africa is weak motherfuckers. 85:11 They said that's our magic. Do you know that me and my gorillas manager... We do emails. Twice a year, I have to do me as me. Where it's not shined upon, shaded or diluted. Where I'm told my magic is greatness and part of the genius. And where I go, first person who told me that was Damon Albom, the frontman of Gorillaz. And so I'm like, dog. 85:38 We're crazier. You're not crazy. 85:40 You're just tripping on shit that's basic. Whoever's in your team that's tripping on that shit is not supposed to be there because you're that. For sure. And I'm not even notorious. I'm church compared to who I open up for. But I'm wild with my math. And so when you're dealing with that shit and a motherfucker tells you that shit and you're doing this shit, it's like, bitch, please. Yeah. there first of all where i hang you need to use your last day's money if you work for a company that's gonna give you that much outside of insurance to live what i'm living right now today this moment so fuck you and your knowledge fuck you and your penis and its ideas of knowing better I've got a vagina, my clitoris is bigger than your dick when it's erect. 86:30 And I can make it erect because DIY is my bitch. So therefore, I need you motherfuckers to teach your sons that you're bringing up today to deal with the daughters that we're bringing up. We're teaching our daughters to never need a nigger. And you're bringing up your niggers to be washed dishes for. Teach your kids about the women we're teaching and bringing up today because they're going to hang themselves. 86:54 To the moon and back. Because they're not going to be needed. 86:56 To the moon and back. Teach your boy kids to be wanted because for as long as they don't feel needed, which is your upbringing, they're going to hang themselves. And so outside rates of males is going to grow. Because the girls we're bringing up are not meant to serve. They're meant to bring up themselves, grow, choose, and leave. 87:15 True. I forgot what I wanted to say. But your question is good. Oh, yes, no. I don't even know. Your question is good. It was in regards to art, right? I even forgot what it was. But as much as I respect you... 87:29 To some degree, I don't agree with you. You don't have to agree with me to respect me. 87:34 Yes, exactly. But let her finish her point. I would just ask that. I forgot what it was. 87:38 And I said it to you. What was it? Oh, yes. Just because we were raised a certain way doesn't mean that when we were adults, we have to act that certain way. Because as people... We grow, right? And then after that, I was about to ask BU what his point was, but you know, it's karate. 87:57 Wait, so what you just said, based on what I said, I can't question. Are you going to get questions immediately? You can question it, but now. 88:05 Okay. 88:07 No, you can question it, but not now. You can question it, but not now. 88:13 It's gone for me because I'm going to be there. I don't do postponement. 88:18 How do you have two questions that you are... Nebatism. Nebatism. 88:21 Okay, by the way, if there's a name... Eat it, cook it. 88:32 I didn't try it. 88:35 If there's a name in front of your question, then it's meant for that person. Okay. 88:39 I know there's no name in front of that question. You're going to ask both questions? Yes. 88:46 Okay, go for it. Nepotism. Make it quick. I've been here longer. 88:49 Don't explain. Make it quick. Make it quick. The first one goes, what is the one question you want to ask someone on the part that you're stopping yourself? I'm going to go first. Go for it. 88:59 Hey, Techo. 89:00 Ask the question. 89:01 How are you, Techo? I'm glad you're good, Techo. Techo, do we have water? Agwapana, something, Fiji, because I'm a person. 89:10 He's the water guy. Okay, let's go. Is that your question? 89:13 No, what type of water do you have? 89:15 Aquapana, do you have Vos, do you have Fiji? What type of water do you guys have? 89:19 I understand the question. You ask me what type of water I have. 89:21 Fine. It's like Valpre or something. Oh, not Valpre. Valpre. 89:27 What's wrong with the Valpre? 89:29 We only drink Fiji, Vos, Aquapana. Give me something. Oh, important shit. Okay. But the question goes, and I'm going to answer this for myself. What is the one question you want to ask someone on the pod, but you're stopping yourself? Can I answer it? 89:44 Yeah. 89:46 Me specifically, me personally, I feel like when you guys had Uncle Vinny here, you guys, not even you guys, you specifically, because the question does go, what is the one question that you want to ask someone, but you're stopping yourself? I felt like you were acting as a very, you were acting as a very supportive big brother, of which is fine. In the industry, you need to have a very supportive mom, or a very supportive dad, or a very supportive sister, or a very supportive brother. 90:19 And in that moment, you were acting like that, which is fine. However, I just felt like you didn't hold him accountable. And my question is, why? 90:27 Okay, let me ask you... 90:29 I have answered it in his diplomatic ways, which still will not answer your question. Let me ask you... In the last episode, you got asked the same question. Let me ask you... Let me try again. 90:37 Let me ask you, what in which... 90:41 what in how I carried myself made you feel that way like in what actions or lack of actions did you see where you can say that 90:49 I don't think it's more about the actions. It's about the words. And please, not even please, because I'm not begging you. And what I'm saying, right? I'm saying it respectfully as my older brothers, as cannot hurt minds, but as like my older brothers, right? I felt like you didn't hold them accountable because you didn't ask him certain questions. 91:12 What would you have liked me to ask him? 91:16 You never asked what happened. How did it happen? Why did it happen? I think I did. Simple five. Who, what, when, where, why? 91:25 I think we did that. We got there. 91:27 We actually got there. Who, what, when, where, why, how? 91:31 Who we knew why. 91:33 What? He told us. 91:35 No, but you need to, the background, the background on who, how did, how did you meet, how did you meet this person? Right? When you met this person, how did the relationship get to this point? Fine. Who, what? What happened? We did speak about that. What? No. 91:52 We did. How we got to that? We did. 91:55 But... 91:55 He was very expressive. 91:58 How are you not questioning yourself on how many women have been here after that interview, have asked you the same question, and you're giving the same motherfucking answer? How are you not going home and looking at yourself in the mirror on what do they actually mean by what they're saying? Because there's no way so many women that don't hate Vinny are asking you the same question from fans. And you've given... That's why I can say... I'm saying I can say the answer you're gonna give. giving nothing how are you here and every woman is asking you the same thing and you're not taking a single moment in the mirror to see maybe where could they be coming from outside of you preserving your older brother your little brother you don't want him to feel attacked fuck the questions of the viewers and the women that follow you that want you to ask the question without him feeling attacked because that's why he's in the podcast You've got the same answer every fucking time. 92:56 I've watched the podcast, you've got the same answer. Can you have a real answer outside of your ass-licking, protecting, big brother position to people that perpetuate, that fucked up women who are asking the question, that follow this show and are asking this question. Yanda is asking this question working on this network. Women have asked this question on emails. You've read them, and I've seen you. That's why I've seen your answer. Can you take some accountability? Say, I don't believe you, women, and I'm with my brother, or whatever. Fucking take accountability. 93:26 Can I add something? Can I add something? To be fair, to be fair, why? No, before we get to why, right? 93:34 Guys, volume doesn't get to me. 93:36 Accountability. 93:37 Like, volume doesn't get to you. 93:38 It's not about the volume, it's about what you're saying. I get that. So to be fair, right? From that episode, as the youth of South Africa, as women of South Africa, right? As a public figure, you guys, one, two, three, we all have a, one, two, three, four, we all have a social justice. As a young woman, I'm supposed to motivate the young women of South Africa. They say bully you for what you stand for and you still stand on it. Hey guys, you don't need a man to get successful. 94:12 You don't need to sell your body to get successful. Fine, right. So now I think as women... 94:18 But I feel like you are preaching the opposite. 94:20 Let her finish. We are most definitely going to get in. 94:25 The thing is I appreciate what you're saying to me because that's what I said to you. Your appreciation is not a conversation right now. 94:32 Let yanda land. Appreciation, cut her conversation. You can appreciate when she's done. Appreciate when she's done. Don't cut her. Let her land. Let her land. 94:43 Her land. Your appreciation. As someone that spoke first, can I please land? Okay, go ahead. Thank you. Thank you for the opportunity. Thank you for the platform. 94:52 Don't read the second question, dog. 94:53 No, it's the first question. I don't even want the second question anymore. Fine. What was my point, Munchal? Go to it. I forgot it. But my chat was, oh, yes. As a young influencer in South Africa, I have a certain... 95:12 Social responsibility to motivate women. Don't laugh. 95:17 No, no, no. You know what? 95:19 You're a villain though. You are a villain. 95:23 Fine. 95:23 Let them finish. 95:26 As a young woman, I feel like I have a certain social responsibility to motivate the young women that follow me. Fine. Right. Now, you guys are on one of the biggest... 95:39 podcasts or the platforms in Africa, right? We felt as women as though you guys were the word, moon, the word. That one. Suddenly the word. Coddling. No, coddling is one of them, but also... Coddling. 95:56 I saw that shit happen. And that nigga. 96:16 I don't even know what she's talking about right now, bro. It's okay. No, babe. It's okay. I'm so lost, bro. Welcome to all the smoke. 96:23 Regarding the Vinny situation, we felt as though you didn't ask him the right questions that we wanted to hear. Yep. I'm not angry at you. No, disappointed. Do you know why I'm not angry? Because maybe the questions that I have for him, you didn't have for him. Of which is fine. That is fine. However... 96:46 Maybe if I was in the seats or if he went to spreading humans, I would have asked him the exact same questions. 96:51 And that's where I agree. 96:53 But we didn't have the same questions. 96:55 And this is what I'm going to say. 96:56 That's why he chose the boys locker room. 96:58 Guys, can I speak? Can I say something? 97:00 Because there's no ownership in the boys' local room. 97:03 Because you speak. 97:04 Before you speak, I don't know if it's a certain brotherhood of, oh no. It's bullshit. He came, whoa, whoa, we can't just call it bullshit. 97:12 It's bullshit because he's acting like an older brother and not taking, the same way I can say to you, your brother beat me. And you can say, my brother's not violent. He's acting like a brother who, he doesn't have a vagina to be in the other position to understand the other side. But anyway, Lend. 97:29 Did my brother beat you or did his brother beat you? Lend. 97:32 Did my brother beat you or did his brother beat you? I'm not going to deal with explaining scenario. 97:37 No, yes or no. Who's brother beat you? 97:40 I've never been beaten, baby. 97:41 Okay, fine. It's hypothetical. It doesn't matter. So now in this scenario, right, Tirol, you are in this chain, which is fine. You are saying the questions that you wanted to know. You're not the public, to be fair. You are saying what you want to know, which is fine. It happens. For me to say you should have asked him this and this and this and this and this is unfair. However, that's what we wanted to hear. And we are upset. 98:13 Why? Because that's not what we heard. Right? But now, I'm viewing you not as an outsider, but also as a podcaster. Sometimes you get a brief. Sometimes you get a certain, I don't know, a Q&A, whatever it's called. That's what happens. 98:31 Sometimes the guest tells you, don't ask me these questions. Exactly. You speak about it before. Exactly. 98:35 Sometimes the guest says, don't ask me these questions. But that's what we were expecting. 98:42 Can I reply to that? 98:42 Yes. 98:44 And I agree with what you're saying. I agree that that's how you received it. 100%. 98:50 But like I've always said, I'm not here to make everyone happy. 98:55 And I don't think any one of us can make everyone happy. 98:57 That's true. 98:58 As Moonchild is here, she's going to make a lot of people upset when they watch this shit. 99:02 Of course. 99:04 And she's not here worried about who's going to accept who she is. And I operate on the same timing. 99:16 And that's why I think we fuck with each other. Because you can say whatever the fuck you want to say. You know what I did? You know what I did that day when I was on this podcast with Vinny? I did what the fuck I wanted to do. Done. Like, I did what I wanted to. And whoever got... Hey, yo, hold on. Wait. Wait, let me finish. Let me finish. 99:34 Can I finish? Sorry, let me just add. I'm contributing. 99:37 No, I don't want you to add. No, I don't want you to add. I don't need contributions. Okay, sorry. Oh, let me move it away. Guys, you guys gave me this smoke. 99:44 Let me handle it. 99:45 I can do this alone. 99:46 I can do this alone. I can do this alone. 99:50 And I've said this before. 99:52 Whatever you are sensitive to, I get it. Yes. And I... 99:58 I'm not going to say I appreciate it, but I acknowledge it. I've acknowledged all of the texts, all of the feelings, all of the, yo, you didn't do this. I acknowledge it. But you know what I am? 100:08 Yes. 100:09 I'm human. 100:11 And humans make mistakes. No, no. 100:12 I didn't make no fucking mistakes. I did what I wanted to do. And I was happy when I left here with what I did. And I'm going to sleep... 100:20 silently tonight after you've said what you've said I'm still gonna sleep silently because when I think back to the moment that you're talking about I'm still gonna be like damn nigga I wouldn't have done a damn thing different like what the fuck nah you can feel how you wanna feel about it and I know you go through the same moments I know you go through the same moments I know you go through the same moments ha ha Shut the fuck up We all go through the same moments And all I'm saying is I hear where you're coming from And I acknowledge it But I won't take responsibility For feeling a type of way Because I didn't do what you expected Or the next person expected Because that's not something that I'll ever teach my child You can't give a fuck I would never do that Fuck your neighbor So I hear you Because the Bible says Love your neighbor Fuck your neighbor I'm emotionally intelligent enough To be like Oh I hear you And I acknowledge you And you have a point And your point is rooted In something very real for you And I 101:16 get it But it means nothing to me And you can have a heart And you can say Fuck your neighbor 101:22 Your actions made sense to you in that moment. 101:26 I didn't have any actions. No, no, no. He came on a podcast where we podcast and we ask certain questions. And unfortunately, we don't have a head... 101:36 in a bowl that's from the commentator so we can make sure that your questions are asked. 101:41 Unfortunately, we don't fucking do that. I don't do that. You don't. 101:44 You guys don't do that either. We do. No, you guys have a section where you do your relationship issues. 101:50 No. 101:51 We don't have a general thing like, yo, make sure you ask this. 101:55 But anyway, you get what I'm trying to say. 102:02 But to be fair, before we make a segment or anything, we make sure that we include everyone that's involved in this country. But that's fine because that's just our podcast. You guys don't have to do that because this is your space. You don't have to do that. This is your space. You need to feel comfortable. BU needs to feel comfortable. And you guys, at the end of the day, need to have fun. 102:28 Thank you. I appreciate that. Listen, guys, it's been a very long and entertaining episode. She's like, are we done? 102:35 So, guys, thank you. We'll see you next time. 102:42 Same place. Same time. Where do they find you? Where do they follow you? 102:48 Oh, she's dropping the music. 102:51 She even forgot. She even forgot she was dropping some shit. 102:55 No, I didn't. Shut the fuck up. Talk to me. Talk to me. Cause I'm the only person that's hearing you. 103:03 I'm dropping. So guys, I've never had. Ask questions so they don't cut this full thing. On Friday, you dropped an EP. No, no, no. So I'm doing South African African summer. No, I'm doing South African African summer. So that's because African summer this year. 103:24 Yeah. 103:26 So, I know you guys don't know because I'm going to screw, screw it. 103:33 Buddha. Yeah, I know. All of you. My kids too. 103:37 Song is an explainer. Because I have to explain at home. The first time I heard a song with Beyonce, my daughter said, isn't she dead? What? Exactly. So I don't... I have to just say and move on before they ask me questions. So anyway, I've got an album coming. It's my first album. It's my first dance album because I'm only famous in South Africa for features and... 103:57 We love the truth. We love their accountability. So when is this dropping? 104:02 On the 7th of November. Oh shit. No, 7th is today. Today is the 6th, right? 104:09 We're in October. It's dropping on Wednesday. 104:12 So tomorrow my first single drops. And can I tell you something? Can you fucking... 104:18 Don't act interested. 104:19 Relax. Am I not acting interested? Motherfucker. Relax, relax. 104:22 Am I not acting interested right now? Don't act interested. I'm the only one looking at you. You said the seventh of what? The seventh of what? 104:30 The seventh of what? 104:31 Let me tell you! Let me tell you! Let me tell you! Get up, motherfucker! 104:36 You just get up, please. 104:38 Please. Get up! 104:39 Oh, this is God over... Stop! Stop it! 104:43 Yannis, stop it! 104:44 You're just listening to us. Getting jealous. Are you getting jealous? 104:48 No, him! 104:49 We're singing your song. Yeah, Adi, he can't move. 104:56 It's my latest one. Just gone! 105:10 What's the word? What's the word? Don't hurt yourself. 105:27 Jonas! Jonas! Jonas! Jonas! 105:58 Do you know what that's like?